. . . my wife and daughter are convinced that not only do I need to update my wardrobe, but I need a makeover and should dye my hair. REALLY??
Coloring your hair is actually not bad advice . . . , but we suggest the services of a professional. A good hair stylist can give you highlights, can keep an appropriate amount of gray and wash the rest away. Look forward to touch ups every 4 or 5 weeks.
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